After some months of marriage, you are then struck with the arrows of reality.
He doesn't seem to be what I had known him to.
She's not totally what I had expected.
He pays less attention to me now.
She is no better than other ladies.
But some months back you said these to her or him;
You are my everything...
I can't do without you...
My world is meaningless without you...
You are my life...
Were you dreaming when you said these.
I do understand why there's so many broken homes today...
When love or lust is gone, the two bodies are exposed to all imperfections.
Get this, there will be a time in your married life when those feelings won't feel like it again as stated from the beginning, marrying some one only because you love him or her is a lame excuse.
Marriage is more than a mere love conviction.
Did you check his or her approach to life, his or her driving force, his or her relationship with others. If he or she has the same vision as yours. There must be a meeting point of ideas from both partners. Then other differences is loved-up or covered by love.
Without this, you might end up marrying out of lust.
Today society has made it even difficult to tell lust from love. A man or woman shouldn't be judged by physical appearance only but of inside.
Sadly many don't have much going inside but outside.
If you consider outside before inside, you are actually taking to the direction of lust.
Beauty is in vain.
Charm is deceit.
Remember:
There will be a time when those emotions won't feel like... What will you do then?
And you probably ain't the only one he or she is passionate about.
Also that a failed Marriage is a humiliating confirmation of transitory of flesh or lust
He doesn't seem to be what I had known him to.
She's not totally what I had expected.
He pays less attention to me now.
She is no better than other ladies.
But some months back you said these to her or him;
You are my everything...
I can't do without you...
My world is meaningless without you...
You are my life...
Were you dreaming when you said these.
I do understand why there's so many broken homes today...
When love or lust is gone, the two bodies are exposed to all imperfections.
Get this, there will be a time in your married life when those feelings won't feel like it again as stated from the beginning, marrying some one only because you love him or her is a lame excuse.
Marriage is more than a mere love conviction.
Did you check his or her approach to life, his or her driving force, his or her relationship with others. If he or she has the same vision as yours. There must be a meeting point of ideas from both partners. Then other differences is loved-up or covered by love.
Without this, you might end up marrying out of lust.
Today society has made it even difficult to tell lust from love. A man or woman shouldn't be judged by physical appearance only but of inside.
Sadly many don't have much going inside but outside.
If you consider outside before inside, you are actually taking to the direction of lust.
Beauty is in vain.
Charm is deceit.
Remember:
There will be a time when those emotions won't feel like... What will you do then?
And you probably ain't the only one he or she is passionate about.
Also that a failed Marriage is a humiliating confirmation of transitory of flesh or lust
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