Beauty- A Blessing that Could Become a Curse. A Must Read For Every Single Lady

Every lady is outwardly beautiful in her own unique way but this piece is about ladies who know they are endowed with outward beauty and i mean ladies whose beauty will make heads turn.
I have seen many ladies flaunt their endowments yet no man is willing to have most of them as wives and I kept wondering what could be wrong.

I have come to know that guys are wiser now and a reasonable man will not mind marrying a humble respectful reserved super ugly lady rather than have a manner-less and sharp tongued sex symbol as a wife but would rather bleep and dump such.

You get several likes in no time whenever you display your pics on social media and they call you Hot girl’, pretty girl’, sexy girl’ yet no man can stay with you neither can you stay with any-man because of your lack of manners and regard for men. Of what use is your outward beauty if you are still single at a marriageable age when the assumed less beautiful ladies are settling down happily and quickly?

This has nothing to do with mockery in anyway but let's face it. Is it not funny that a lady so endowed with physical beauty will remain single in her thirties or even late twenties?
Definitely something must be wrong somewhere and most times if checked we will realize that these ladies are the cause and has nothing to do with men.

Most hot chics are arrogant, proud,impatient.too picky,disrespectful and always eager to turn down men or break up promising relationships because their beauty easily controls them and they believe a new man will always come around in no time.

More pathetic is the fact that many hot chics seem to believe they can achieve more in life with their physical beauty rather than hard work or even academic qualifications.We can see such in many tertiary institutions and business organizations whoring their way up their career ladder or to get good grades.
Most of these hot chics as they call them are intellectually dumb and i begin to wonder if their hotness is actually an exchange for their brains.

Many of them can not hold up intelligent conversations but are always mostly concerned about fashion and very eager to expose their body shamelessly for the world to see forgetting that by so doing,they are shutting the doors of their life to responsible men while attracting those who are only interested in sampling the product they are advertising.

And after it dawns on them how reckless they have been,they usually come up with these defensive consolatory lines that "Everybody has a past,They are happy the way they are,marriage is not for everyone,i don't need marriage to be happy" but they secretely cry inside and wished they can turn back the hands of time.

Yes your looks will win you so many men; both the good, and the bad, but your inner beauty, your character and manner are the things that will determine whether any of those men would stay or run after accomplishing their missions.

The dumbest thing i have heard a hot chic say is "I'm so hot that at least 10 men approach me in a week"
NEWS FLASH! : A thousand men can approach you in one month yet none of these men will be interested in walking you down the Aile but will only use your sorry ass and dump you.

On the final note please let this sink into your brain.."If you think you are too hot to be with one man then be ready to be sampled by many men..the choice is all yours.
Be reasonable and understand that there is a thin line between when your beauty becomes a blessing or a curse on you...be wise.

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10 Facts You (Females) Need Not Be Told About Before Accepting a Proposal

It is the wish of numerous women to get hitched or married, keeping in mind some women are completely prepared, many are absolutely guileless about what lies ahead.

In the wake of saying 'I will' to that man, from my little involvement in life, i present to you 10 things you need not be advised before you say I do to that man.

That regardless of how sweet the man is to you,no matter how minding and sentimental and regardless of what number of prophets let you know he is your
man, that sweet man can swing to a beast in the wake of saying i do, as such what it appears before marriage is never an assurance of what it will be after marriage.

If your man undermines you when you are courting, there is a 90% probability that he will do far more detestable subsequent after wedding you and you require
to get prepared for that.

If your man beats you once, it could be a misstep, however in the event that he beats you the second time then its a propensity he is probably never going to stop.

It regards that you wed a man you have affections for, however it is a shocking thing to wed a man who does not fancy you as much as you
want him.

That in the event that you wed a man as a result of what he has and not due to common love, then be
prepared to be hopeless in that marriage the length of it lasting.

That a man can love you with all his life and will still cheat on you because most men think with that thing down there when it comes to
their feelings for women and are polygamous in nature and no matter how sweet and disciplined you are, it will not stop him from cheating on
you and divorcing a cheating hubby is no guaranty that the next man won't do worse.

As a lady, as long as you are sexually decent, GOD fearing, an excellent cook, financially independent and humble, you
have absolutely nothing to fear because it will be extremely difficult for your man to disrespect you much less divorce you.

That 90% of men who cheat on their wives are not ready to divorce their wives but it is these wives that push the man out with impatience and hot temper so you will need lots of patience to deal with a philanderer
because in most cases,they always come back home after having their feel of the side dishes.

That no man owns the key to your marital happiness except you because most men are the same and no man is worth the stress and as soon as you are married,you should focus on building your life as well as that of your child(ren) .

That there is no right or wrong choice of man but what we have is your choice and what you make out of it and only GOD can guaranty a
happy marriage.

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